How To Have Happy Wedding Guests

  Of course, the wedding is about the bride and groom and their beautiful union, but if you are planning a wedding- the following thought has probably crossed your mind, “Will my guests enjoy themselves at our wedding?” Our team at Saiaf Films has seen all types of different weddings. After years of observing these epic events, we have gathered a pretty decent knowledge of what it takes to have happy wedding guests. You can’t always please everyone, but these ideas can give you an idea of what makes guests happy or what can drive them crazy!

Appetizers & Drinks

It’s no secret that people enjoy good food when they attend a wedding. But sometimes, not everyone can hold off through the ceremony and formalities before dinner is served. If you want to have happy wedding guests, consider serving drinks and appetizers before the ceremony begins (aka: Cocktail Hour.) Who knows how many of them were in a rush to get ready or were too busy with excitement to eat beforehand. You don’t want your guests sitting around trying to enjoy the ceremony while they are getting lightheaded or frustrated from their hunger pains! Same goes for the drinkage. Keep your guests hydrated throughout the event- especially if you are having an outdoor wedding in the warmer months.

Time Limits

This can be difficult to follow sometimes, especially if you are caught up in the moment. But when things start to drag on past a certain time, you may start to lose the attention of your guests. This goes for ceremony time, speech time, etc. It helps to have a time limit anticipated ahead of time. Obviously, you don’t always know how long someone is planning their speech to be, but perhaps you can mention it ahead of time to everyone who plans to speak. Or designate someone to spread the word. It is also important to stay somewhat on schedule. There may be minor delays, but keeping on schedule will keep your guests entertained and knowing what to expect next.

Extra Details

• Friendly Staff: This goes for your servers, bartender, DJ, etc. There is nothing more awkward than a rude staff member at a wedding- and it can quickly take the excitement from a happy wedding guest. Consider designating someone who can keep an eye or an ear out for unhappy wedding staff.
• Space: It always helps to anticipate ample space for your event. If you are having a large wedding, be sure that your venue allows for room and comfort. Some people like their space and may get frustrated if they are crammed into a small area.
• Music: Always double check your wedding playlist or discuss the details with your DJ. You want to ensure that there will be music when needed and that it will keep the vibe of the wedding going throughout the night.
• Special Details: Guests love special details! Whether it is a firework send off, or an extra special performance or dance. Try to incorporate a few special details that will always stand out for your guests.
  

Having happy wedding guests will ensure that your wedding is a hit! Again, you may not be able to please everyone- but taking care of the few little things will guarantee that the majority enjoys your event. That means a more exciting and enjoyable wedding to remember for years to come!