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As you are probably starting to notice, planning a wedding takes up a lot of time, and money! One budget factor that can be easily overlooked is whether or not you should tip the wedding vendors. Although tipping is not mandatory, it is a kind gesture and a great way to show gratitude for a job well done. But, many people aren’t quite sure if tipping is mandatory or acceptable- which can be somewhat confusing when trying to set aside your specific budget. Our team at Saiaf Films is more than fluent in the language of weddings. Therefore, we would to share our tips for tipping- no pun intended.
Wedding Planner
Even though wedding planners don’t usually expect a tip, if yours was an exceptional one- why not show your appreciation? Whether you choose a monetary form or even a more sentimental approach such as a your wedding photos for their portfolio, your wedding planner will appreciate the extra recognition. Tips: Optional. Can be given at the end of the reception or with a thank-you note after the honeymoon.
Delivery Staff
Anytime someone brings something by or delivers something (flowers, sound or audio equipment, the wedding cake, tents, chairs, etc.) it is a good idea to tip them a little bit- especially if it is a lot of gear! Tips: Expected. About $5-$10 per person. With everything else going on, it will be hard to pass out tips individually. Consider giving it to the vendor manager ahead of time to disperse accordingly.
Wedding Stylist & Makeup Artist
Consider tipping as you would in a hair salon. Maybe even a bit more in the event that the process is a bit more time consuming. Tips: Expected. Average 15-20%. Tip at the end of your service.
Wedding Music
Whether you decide to hire a full band or you choose to have a DJ, tipping your music provider is a thoughtful idea, especially if they did an exceptional job! Tips: Expected. Gratuity can average anywhere from $15-$150. Tip at the end of the reception.
Reception Staff
From servers to clean up crew this genre can involve any individual that was on staff at the reception. Tips: Expected. Tips can range $20 – $25 per bartender/waiter or 15-20% of the total food or drink cost. Valet: $1-$5 per car or $1-$5 per guest. Consider tipping at the end of the reception.
Wedding Officiant
Normally, if the officiant is affiliated with a specific church or synagogue- the tip is usually made to the church or institution that they work with. Tips: Optional. Standard is $500 or more to the church or institution. Can normally be tipped before the wedding or directly to the officiant at the wedding.
Wedding Transportation
Provided that they show up on time, they don’t get lost and they are friendly to everyone- tipping your transportation crew is optional. Tips: Usually expected. Averaged 15-20% of the bill. Can be given at the end of the night.
Additional Tips for Tipping Your Wedding Vendors: Consider designated one individual
(usually the best man) to tip the wedding vendors- as you will probably have a lot going on. Also, be sure to check your contracts beforehand as tipping may already be included. Remember, these are the individuals who are helping to make your special day one of the most important events of your life!n As always, pay attention to those who provide exceptional and memorable service and show your appreciation accordingly and as you deem necessary.